You know what i find funni…
Most men are facinated by the notion of two women kissing…namley two extremely hot women. Well acctually that equally facinates me but that because im bisexual. lol But what i find funni is that if you ask them about “real life” lesbiens, they will almost always tell you that every one of them that they have met has either been fat or ugly. Or at least thats been my personal expirience.
Im not sure why most people have the perception that most lesbiens are on the ugly side. Most people are very surpirised to find out that im with a girl…Im tall with long dark hair and hazel eyes, very girly, been told im attractive…my girlfriend/fiancee has long blonde hair and brown eyes however people arent so surprised that she is and some people can even tell upon meeting her because she loves sports, plays softball (staple lesbien thing right there) and some of her mannerisms are on the manly side…like the way she sits in a chair sometimes, how obsessive she is about her mustang, and just the way that she carries herself. But people are stil very facinated when they find out that we are together. And it works out to our advantage at times as well! Weve gotten free hotdogs sent to our seats at Yankee Stadium from oogling men and free drinks at the bar…yup…sometimes its a pretty sweet deal.
So then why the steriotype?
I guess because there are alot of lesbiens that feel more comfortable with all their hair cut off and in boys clothes and such trying to compensate for all the extra testostorone flowing through their body. lol And ive acctually seen some very cute girls with short hair…although i prefer long hair. I mean look at Portia de Rossi! Shes very attaractive!!!! Or Tila Tequila and her show A Shot at Love!!!
And then theres the question of if you are a girl, why would you be with a girl that looks like a guy…why not just be with a guy. ITS DIFFERENT. A. maybe they just dont like penis and it doesnt turn them on…and…B. a relationship with a women is different. Its deeper and more emotional…its on a totally different level once you become that close to another woman. Its indescribable.
Thats really the only way to explain the “science”. If thats what one should call it.